Book Review/ Reflection: "If only He Knew"

If Only He Knew

If only he knew is a book designed to educate husbands through scripture and experiences to change the directions of their marriages. It is to turn men from selfish spouses and make them into caring gentlemen who love and respect the women that are their wives.  

My Opening thoughts 

My first thoughts when I was rereading the book I was slightly frustrated because I thought to myself that I was rereading this book and so in my pride and selfishness. I figured that it would be an easy ready but I would get bothered by how much I was actually messing it up the whole situation.  Mid-way through reading   I have acknowledged that I slacked off when I was halfway through this book. I originally thought I would have finished this book sooner, but it was a tough pill to swallow.  I did not believe how far I was off the right path until I was off the path. 

CONCLUSION

In Conclusion on the last chapter in the book where the husband had actually treated his wife just like the book and teaching tells. Once He started to slip and slacking off he was becoming frustrated and annoyed and angered with himself. That is myself in every possible way, I need to stay driven. Then He slacked off and relaxed instead of work at 100% full force in his marriage. That is a clear sign that I need to do. I need to go 100% into my marriage. I need to be 100% committed and 100% driven to strengthening my marriage. 

Works Cited

If Only He Knew: A Valuable Guide to Knowing, Understanding, and Loving Your Wife

by Gary Smalley